I think we're taking about different sites. (there are a few)
I'm not really into the whole spiritual thing, I feel like its a part of my past now. In order to comprehend or understand on a psiritual level we require compassion and thats something which is inherant in all religions and faiths and persuasions at some degree. I just ound being around mediums wasn't about compassion it was about ego. And in sharing that space and understanding I lost a part of myself.
I would much rather be a member of a church which allows us to express that compassion..and understanding.