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Kyle
IP: 24.14.23.129
Jan 26, 06 - 10:42 PM |
transitioning later in life
After years of consideration I have finally reached a point where I am SURE I want to transition. Yeah so it takes me awhile to make life altering decisions.
However I am afraid i have waited too long. I am almost 50 and just starting menopause. If ayone here has experience with transitioning over the age of 45 or so, or knows someone who has, I'd appreciate any insight into any age specific issues they have encountered.
thanks
Kyle
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Alaric
IP: 62.107.115.112
Jan 31st, 2006 - 5:43 PM |
Re: transitioning later in life
I'm interested in seeing the answer to this one myself. I'm 47 and for now, only bind. Since I now live in Denmark however, I'll be able to get most of the surgery I'll need on the public health bill. My only concern is that I may have waited too long with this decision.
Thanks, Alaric
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Mick
IP: 70.121.62.108
Feb 1st, 2006 - 7:27 PM |
Re: transitioning later in life
Hi Kyle,
I was 1 month past 46 (Aug 04) when I took my first T shot and believe that it's better late than never! I haven't had a hysterectomy yet and was on the verge of menopause and I've had no physical problems. I had keyhole surgery last June and am going for a revision this April because the elasticity of older skin doesn't rebound as well but I'm still very pleased. Other than that I try to eat right, exercise often (includes sex), and am clean, sober and smoke free. I believe if you're ready and healthy - GO FOR IT. Life is beautiful! Write me any time. Regards, Mick.
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Adrien
IP: 192.147.68.236
Aug 7th, 2006 - 4:50 PM |
Re: transitioning later in life
I am 36 and had top surgery in 2004 and started T in June 2005. So, I obviously don't claim to have first-hand knowledge of the FtM transition at an older age. I think a qualified endocrinologist would be able to answer all your questions and get you started if you had a consultation. I did want to share this antecdote, though. The first time I saw my endo, she told me this great story. She had a patient who was 78 years old. His whole life he had been a very macho man, married to a woman, with five children. He had served in the military and was an investment banker. And he had finally had his SRS, transitioning to female, at 76. It literally brought tears to my eyes to realize how powerful and resilient we are. You can live your whole life in a way that doesn't fulfill you or let you express your true self, and still find your way to being whole and happy at any age. While there is breath left in us there is the chance to be complete through whatever degree of transition you choose. Everyone on this thread has my deep admiration and best wishes for healthy and fulfilling transition.
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Rob
IP: 65.24.41.130
Dec 9th, 2006 - 11:20 AM |
Re: transitioning later in life
I just found this forum site. Better late than never. I started to transition late in life. Its a lot more complicated now than if you do it earlier. Do not worry about your age. Its not to late to be who you are supposed to be. If you don't try you will always wonder, what if I had only done that? Be who you are truely supposed to be. You will feel whole. I am now 49 and planning my last surgery. I don't know when. Money issues, you know? I will do it even if I am 80 yrs old. Go for it! Good luck!
Rob
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Alec
IP: 207.200.116.12
Dec 10th, 2006 - 2:02 PM |
Re: transitioning later in life
I think it is hard to transition at any age. But perhaps at an age over 40, it can be more challenging. I began my transition 10 years ago at the age of 30, but put it on hold, to a degree, while I persued a career in the music industry. Now that I am no longer a professional musician, I have once again begun a journey long overdue. Its better late than never, in any book. Not just your transition, but in any aspect of your life.
Good luck!
Alec
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Bricio
IP: 75.3.43.108
Dec 22nd, 2006 - 3:28 PM |
Re: transitioning later in life
Kyle,
I know what you mean. I'm 37 and started T Oct. 21st of this year. If it wasn't for being on drugs thirteen straight years of my life trying to forget the thought of having to go through drastic surgeries in order to be happy in life I would have started my transition when I was 18. But I'm 7 years clean now and started on T so late because I had to work back and pay back and buy back everything I had ever lost, bought and gave away, or borrowed. But I'm on my way now and it feels great !! Like others have replied to you, late is better than never and being angry with yourself for waiting definately will get you nothing but trouble and more problems. Keep a straight head you can't change the past, but you can conquer the future.
Keep your head up bro!!
Bricio
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Evan
IP: 152.163.100.72
Jan 26th, 2007 - 9:48 PM |
Re: transitioning later in life
Hi guys,
I am about to start T and I have lots of worries about my age. I am 52 and in menopause and now I am starting a whole new hormone mix. And I am worried about how the transitioning process will affect my job. I know in my heart it is what I have to do and I want it......but the process scares me. I guess I am just looking for some other guys to relate to , who can understand my fear and not put me down for it. Thanks for letting me get it all out.
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Evan
IP: 152.163.100.72
Jan 31st, 2007 - 11:19 PM |
Re: transitioning later in life
Is there anyone out there? Does anybody reply to the boards? I just found this site and I think it can be very helpful if we use it. Thanks.
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Jai
IP: 67.149.94.20
Mar 4th, 2007 - 2:43 PM |
Re: transitioning later in life
Having a family hx of stroke and heart attack, I share your worries about transitioning later in life. I believe, had the opportunities been available when I was a teenager (back in the dark ages!), I would have gone ahead, regardless of the risks. Now at 51, the risks scare me, but not nearly as much as spending another 20 years living as an androgynous recluse.
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Finn
IP: 75.71.35.12
Apr 13th, 2007 - 1:14 PM |
Re: transitioning later in life
Hey Kyle,
I'm a late bloomer. I started on T June 21,2007 at 47 years of age. I felt this calm, nurturing sensation in my brain immediately - it was like "coming home" at last. I've not had any problems except for wishing I had done this earlier my facial hair is coming in gray! My health isn't the best and I'm home on disability and don't get out much. I'd like to find some guys to chat with, I've been on this journey alone. I say follow your heart no matter what.
Finn
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jimmy
IP: 151.203.108.208
Apr 27th, 2007 - 10:47 AM |
Re: transitioning later in life
Hey y'all. I just want to point out that many transguys on T go through early menopause as a result, so I don't think transitioning later is a bad thing. But be careful and find a Doc that can guide you towards levels appropriate for your growth phase. Many older bio-guys use T as a muscular stabilizer, as well as men with AIDS. So I imagine hteir levels might be closer to what you need. Good luck!
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